So my daughter had a birthday yesterday and it was great. She turned the big 03!...yup yup.
Today my little one Peanut is back to her shit again. I have proof...she has been terrorizing my house again.
Oh well, I will have to blog about it later, I have to clean up some pots and pans. I have not and refuse to baby proof this house...she will just have to constantly hear me say no no ma'am all day...she will eventually learn. I still love my little terrorist though.
On another note, my husband was so nice yesterday to my best friends kid...he dropped off a card and money to her house on his way home from work yesterday with the cake and icecream for Angelina's birthday party.
My best friend was at work, he called her and let her know it was slid under the door and she said " Oh, tell Suki I will call her this week and come out to see her." No happy birthday to my daughter, nothing. We will see if she does that. I leave on Monday to go to Montana...I am not holding my breath. This is about the umpteenth time she has said she would visit.
This is the same person I go and visit alot and she has never once came out here to see me, even on her days off. This is also a person I have helped out repeatedly. I helped her get a new washer when hers broke, I helped her by loaning her money which she has not paid back for her to go on trips to Ohio because it was an emergency, I have been there for her when her cupboards were bare, when the MP's were called and watched her kids for free...all kinds of things, without ever bringing it up or even saying anything about it...I feel somehow like I am betraying our friendship by writing this, but I have no one to talk to this about so I am writing it here...but this is the type of person that I am. I have been there, and am there for everyone of my friends in this way.
The one time I need her to be there for me, she is AWOL. The one time I need anyone there for me they are AWOL.
I am kind of bummed. I do try to reach out to her and even call her, but this friendship is one-sided. Am I doing something wrong?
I think I just need new friends or something...this is depressing just reading back on this blog.
Any suggestions?
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ah the big 03. hold on to your hats the fun starts now : ) somewhere around 3 1/2 my first developed a major attitude (althought the second took a page from his book and acquired it much earlier).
ReplyDeleteSorry about your friend issues, some people are just oblivious, it doesnt make it right, they just never learn or never get it. hang in there.
She probably is just oblivious, but it's been almost an entire month and I haven't spoken to her. Since my phone broke and I don't have my contact numbers, I haven't called her so I will probably have to wait to hear from her. Not holding my breath.
ReplyDeleteMy three year old is doing very well sometimes she has a tantrum but nothing major yet. The 14 month old though, she is something else, lol, but I love them both dearly.